Monday, September 22, 2008

focus, mom....

Over the past 2 weeks I haven't been the model parent when dealing with poo accidents.  I know you're supposed to be positive and encouraging in the face of it all but really, after cleaning it up day after day it wears on you.  So when Grant started saying that he made mommy sad when he poo'd in his wundies I thought I'd better change my ways.  Amazingly (or not so amazingly), it's worked.  The more I encourage and celebrate him getting it right the better he gets at it. 

So last night I went in and was very exuberant in my celebration of poo landing in the potty.  I was cheering and encouraging and yelling "GRANT!!!! YOU DID IT!!! YAY!!!! WAY TO GO!!! YOU'RE SUCH A BIG BOY! HIGH FIVE!"  Finally, Grant grabbed both sides of my face and whispered very solmenly "no, no..shhhhhhhhh mommy... mommy.  you need to wipe my bum".  It completely made me bust out laughing as if he were saying.. get a grip, focus on the task at hand mom.. geez calm down. 

Anyway, he's been doing really well with the encouragement but I guess I'll have to tone it down a bit. 

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